Let’s explore this concept of triggers.
If you touched a hot stove as a child, quite naturally your parent(s) scolded you. You also felt an intense burning sensation and therefore removed your hand. This is an example of a physical trigger.
Skin to hot stove = pain. Simple.
In the spirit of this blog, we will mainly concern ourselves with psychological triggers that can be classified within the following:
This chart is Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs as you might know. We are going to focus on the bottom “basic needs.” We’ll also assume that most of your lady targets are able to feed & clothe themselves. Next step up is security & safety.
We need to dissect what emotional triggers you as a male can transmit to engender confidence to females that you are a safe and secure partner. This applies to very short-term relationships (my speciality) or even long-term situations (no thank you 🙂 )
So your homework tonight is to think about how you are signaling “I’m safe & secure” to be around. This will eventually lead into the first phase of CONQUEST. The initial contact.