Everybody has that moment of weakness when they are looking at their cell phone wondering if they should txt their ex.
Well, let me help you through this temporary crisis of comfort, Do Not Text.
Let’s just take a step back and analyze what has led you to this point. Most likely you’ve been single for a few weeks or months. The honeymoon period of hitting the club with your boys has worn off and you are starting to realize how much WORK it requires to find another attractive and
combative compatible significant other.
This is where and why you have that instant gratification device in your hand and you are ready to pull the trigger on “SEND.” But if you stop for a moment, and really think about it, there is a good reason why you aren’t together. You don’t really miss her, you miss the good times you shared.
Most likely you’ve had a fairly enjoyable relationship before some snag started to surface and eventually grew into a deal breaker. This same deal breaker still exists and hasn’t fundamentally changed because you been away for a few weeks or months. The bottom line is that you are seeking comfort from the unsympathetic dating market and you are looking to find it in a familiar & safe place.
You are wrong in that temporary train of thought. That safe haven that you believe is waiting for you is really empty. You had your moments together but the timing wasn’t right. You must move on.
But, I have good news. If you continue to read this blog and research some of my previous posts, you will start to build out the foundation to not only survive in the dating market, but begin to actually thrive!!!
Like sports, its 90% mental in the matchmaking arena. You need the right conditioning & training but more importantly the right mentality & mindset to be successful across multiple opportunities and targets.
So stay strong my friend and put your iPhone back in your pocket. You will be armed with more potent tools & skills very soon. Stay tuned.
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