We could spend weeks on this one subject but I’ll give you my learnings as clearly and concisely as possible.
What a women wears is a billboard for how she feels about herself and her self-esteem. It defines who she is and where she is going.
When you see a well dressed women in a business suit with high heels and her hair pulled back, you think, that’s a women going places. You instantly respect her as a professional women. The same is true when you see a women at the bar with a super duper mini skirt, hooker heels & layers of makeup. You instantly register EASY TARGET.
The fact of the matter is we live in a world of appearances. We judge based on the 5 senses until further notice. People are guilty until proven innocent.
So how does this help you in the game of CONQUEST?
Its similar to poker. All the players are gathered around the table trying to pick up the slightest clues, tails & patterns. In the game of life/CONQUEST, its the same deal!!! You are trying to pick up clues about your target so you can best relate to her and her experiences. Everyone is most comfortable with people like themselves. The more you can appear to be like the lady of your desire, the closer you will get to your goal.
As with most things, there is a balance. I’m not advocating you start shopping or making hair appointments, I’m suggesting you deeply understand your target as much as possible. Almost like a BFF. But you always must maintain that masculine edge and keep your focus in mind. You aren’t there to make a new best friend, you are there to win the game.
So on your next date, ask yourself, what story is she representing by her outfit. Is she a free spirit? Is she an alpha female not taking anybody’s mess? Is she saying, hey boyz, its open season???
You need to piece together the clues and then act upon it. The best poker players are able to pick up on the subtle clues and reactions that lead to edges. You need to do the same. You can only get better with experience. Unfortunately, I can’t type your way into mastery so go out there and get em player!!!!