This is definitely for the more advanced players in the game, but body language is a huge ocean of information that can be gathered to determine the best plan of attack.
- upright posture – she’s confident and self assured, you must match this will greater confidence and command of your environment/surroundings
- slightly leaning forward – in general she is more needy than most, you must capitalize on this with decisive moves to seal the deal
- her head is on a swivel – game over, she’s really not interested
The main thing to note with body language is that it is another language. Learn to pick up on her movements and start to collect a host of meanings assigned to those movements. You will be able to adjust more quickly and change your game real-time to match the opponent.
Also, keep your body language strong and confident at ALL TIMES. Even if you are unsure about something, act self-assured and figure it out later. As you get more practice, you simply become more confident. I recommend 100 at-bats (dates) to really understand the process of CONQUEST. Get to it!!!