The good ole “birds of a feather” saying. It is for the most part absolutely true.
When you first meet a girl, try to identify her type by researching or meeting her “crew.” This process is usually simple via Instagram or Facebook. Do a little detective work and see how her friends roll.
Are they the party type? The crew that is enamored with material items? Adventurous/Raver type? Athletic/Outdoors type? Cultured/Art walk type??
No matter what the type you must adapt if you want to play the game. This requires you being flexible and open-minded and subject to change. Keep in mind, this is the game. You aren’t trying to spend the rest of your life with these ladies. You are seeking unique experiences and then keeping it moving.
It will be fun and enjoyable. For example if you bump into the nature crew, schedule a date where you take her on a hike somewhere cool. Take pictures and enjoy the scenery.
If you bump into the fashionista, hit the mall and have her help you pick out a cool new shirt. She’ll love to play the stylist role and you will see her in her element.
For my specialty, the party girls, this will require several posts to break down but i’ll give you an introduction to the end game. You need to take her out for the TIME OF HER LIFE. I mean, UBER black, stroll straight into the club, drinks, dancing and even a dope afterparty should be part of the agenda. You will be the ringmaster for the evening.
A typical night for me started with dinner reservations around 9 p.m. I would invite a group of friends and sometimes she would too. After a few hours of getting to know each over some Sushi, we would hit the clubs. Now this is important. You must KNOW somebody at the door so there is no delay to your entry. She wants to feel special so you must start building relationships with bouncers and door guys now so when you are on your big date, you get smooth entry into the club. NO DELAYS.
Once inside, you need to be THE MAN. Drinks on you. Lead her to the dancefloor and claim your prize at the end of the night. Well, what are you waiting for! The night is young gents!!!!!