Weekend retreat

Heading out of town for a weekend getaway. My first mini vacation in awhile.

You homework this weekend is to try to take a previous principle I’ve explained and put it into practice!

Practice makes perfect!

A simple step that everyone can improve is a higher contact rate. Get out of your dorm room/apartment and start meeting people face to face. It does wonders.

The best way to approach a girl is simply introducing yourself, making friendly eye contact and displaying a confident smile. That’s it. Then once the interview starts, you know what to do. You are the writer/director of your own movie/life starring YOU!

Be also mindful to listen to her story and look for opportunities to find commonalities among your life experience.

Anyhow, I got a plane to catch. I’ll be back with a full recap early Tues. morning.

In the meantime, GO CONTACT & CONQUEST.

Stay closing,


The Break-Up

A subscriber sent an email requesting information on how best to get over a break-up. Well since I typically avoid commitments, it took me a few weeks to actually gather my thoughts.

Anyhow, I’ve had a few committed relationships over the course of my career. One being when I was a teenager and it resulted in the birth of my angel.

That ended when I went away to school and pursued by studies. I dealt with the separation and disappointment in the best way I know how. Taking my game to the next level!!!!!

This involved countless distractions and excursions with other women.

Yes gents, the best way to deal with a break-up is to distract yourselves with other women or even a hobby.

The worse way is to obsess over the individual you just cut ties with.

You must move on and make it clear that you have. Social media is a great way to show you are totally over the relationship. And its very therapeutic to replace your significant others mental energy with NEW energy.

You’d be surprised, when she catches you on social media at the football game surrounded by beautiful girls, her natural instinct will be to want you back!!!! That might not be the best course of action, if the relationships is doomed already, but it will feel awfully good esp if she broke it off with you.

In summary, here are my top 3 DO’s/DON’Ts:

Do: 1) see other women

Don’t: 1) obsess over her

Do:  2) distract yourself with work/school/hobby

Don’t: 2) txt her trying to rekindle the relationship

Do: 3) post pics to social media with new acquaintances

Don’t: 3) stalk her profile

Hope this all helps. And remember, please don’t hesitate to contact me for anything specific you would like discussed. I’m not a licensed professional but I have tons of experience in the battle of the sexes.

Food For Thought

We have all heard it. You are what you eat.

Now you may be wondering, what the heck does this have to do with the CONQUEST.

Well, let me explain.

How you feel is directly related to how the world will relate to you. If you are putting garbage in your system, then guess what?  Garbage in. Garbage out!

A healthy player is a strong player. My diet is basic. I begin each morning with a bowl of oatmeal. I roll into lunch with a sandwich and fruit. Then some veggies and maybe some meat for dinner. The key is avoiding too many carbs and like most things, moderation is key. Also, drinking water and staying hydrated throughout your day is important.

Be the best you can be. This will help you tremendously in attracting the girl of your dreams. I’m still chasing her but I have a plan and roadmap to get there. You should too 🙂

Have a awesome weekend players!

Exit Interview

As the date is coming to a close, the next objective is to see her again. First, you must go over a checklist of items you should have already addressed.

  1. You are a confident man whom she can feel safe and secure around
  2. You have an interesting life and ambitious goals
  3. You had an amazing time with her and would like to spend more time together

This blog is dedicated to developing you into the perfect package. The closer and sooner we get there, the more lady options and life options will arise. You must be committed to working on yourself. I say all this because the above steps are easier when  you feel good about yourself and where you are headed in life. So if you lack direction, none of my teachings will have their full potency.

So before we enter the next phase of CONQUEST, I want to take some time for people to provide feedback or ask questions. Feel free to message me or leave a comment. Otherwise, we can head to the next phase.