Gotta give it up to a true champion.
The man was won 5 titles, speaks a few languages and is a family man.
But the key takeaway here is how he approaches the game. They call him the black mambo for a reason.
HE’S A KILLER!
That’s what you gotta be. Remember Winners Win. History doesn’t remember second place finishers. You must always strive to be #1.
More importantly, as Kobe’s career has shown, you must consistently put in the work to be the best. Just not any work, the right work.
So what is the right work? Well in this CONQUEST world, the right work begins with 100 ABs. That’s right you must go out on 100 dates to really under the game.
You must study the psychology of people and what they want. Then give it to them. Its that simple. Give the people what they want.
Everybody likes a winner.
This isn’t a huge secret or revelation but you must decide the path you will take that will lead to the winner’s circle.
Step 1: Pick something you’re good at
Step 2: Pursue that something like your life depends on it
Step 3: Self-promote like its your business
Step 4: Network and meet other successful people
Step 5: Retire and raise a family
Its that simple. The toughest part is making that commitment to yourself and following through. Everyone has a dream but few people have the drive to see it all the way through especially when faced with adversity.
Also, deciding a path can also be problematic for some. If you really examine your life and what truly interests you, it should be clear what industry and profession you target.
Then the fun begins.
As they say, to the victor goes the spoils!!!
The mysterious master of one’s domain. This the intended goal of this program I’m revealing for anyone interested.
But first, to CONQUER your environment, you must start with yourself.
It is the first step to truly understanding others. Here is a book I highly recommend for those that are interested in exploring the psyche of others. You MUST READ.
Once you get the psychology of people down, the next step is to finance your operation/growing social empire. Having a passive income stream will free your time to explore the world.
This step is challenging but totally doable if you put in the TIME. Start will an online business. The easiest one is simply selling a product. Buy low, sell high. This book below will also equip you with the MINDSET necessary to be successful in business and eventually life. Its another MUST READ.
Once you finish both books and put in the work to free your time, you are now ready to start your CONQUEST mission. Pick a country that you’ve always wanted to visit, book a AirBnb, flight & setup shop in that city.
Go to the cafes and just start talking to people. Get the scoop on where the social epicenter of that city resides and then start showing up at night to hang & party. Meet people, exchange ideas and you will be on the path to achieving whatever your brain can dream.
I will leave you with that. Enjoy your Thanksgiving my friends. Be Inspired!
Everybody has that moment of weakness when they are looking at their cell phone wondering if they should txt their ex.
Well, let me help you through this temporary crisis of comfort, Do Not Text.
Let’s just take a step back and analyze what has led you to this point. Most likely you’ve been single for a few weeks or months. The honeymoon period of hitting the club with your boys has worn off and you are starting to realize how much WORK it requires to find another attractive and
combative compatible significant other.
This is where and why you have that instant gratification device in your hand and you are ready to pull the trigger on “SEND.” But if you stop for a moment, and really think about it, there is a good reason why you aren’t together. You don’t really miss her, you miss the good times you shared.
Most likely you’ve had a fairly enjoyable relationship before some snag started to surface and eventually grew into a deal breaker. This same deal breaker still exists and hasn’t fundamentally changed because you been away for a few weeks or months. The bottom line is that you are seeking comfort from the unsympathetic dating market and you are looking to find it in a familiar & safe place.
You are wrong in that temporary train of thought. That safe haven that you believe is waiting for you is really empty. You had your moments together but the timing wasn’t right. You must move on.
But, I have good news. If you continue to read this blog and research some of my previous posts, you will start to build out the foundation to not only survive in the dating market, but begin to actually thrive!!!
Like sports, its 90% mental in the matchmaking arena. You need the right conditioning & training but more importantly the right mentality & mindset to be successful across multiple opportunities and targets.
So stay strong my friend and put your iPhone back in your pocket. You will be armed with more potent tools & skills very soon. Stay tuned.
For more information on break-ups, READ THIS!
The main insight around height and weight are fairly obvious. They are extensions of the wardrobe. How a women carries her weight and showcases her height are reflections of how she feels about herself. Much like some of the previous points I’ve covered.
All this boils down to how someone feels and how can you relate to it.
Well, this will conclude my 10 part series on the fundamentals of the story someone can tell by:
I would encourage everyone to review the aforementioned in depth. I’m going back into the lab and will continue educating players around the Contact phase of the game.
Enjoy your weekend people and remember “Always be closing.”
What this jewelry really is communicating is basically how open-minded a person can be.
A nose ring usually means she’s fairly liberal and open-minded.
A tattoo above her lower back screams, “I’m a good time.”
A tongue ring means, well, you should know that one. Lol.
All the above are done to express something to the world. They are symbols of shifts from the status quo. She wants to be different and unique by decorating her body and that’s a key ingredient for a skilled player to be mindful.
You are a different experience in her mind. And the interaction/relationship you develop is something unique. So you need to position yourself as such.
Show her you can be as unique and a shift from the status quo by sharing a rebellious experience. If you do not have tattoos or piercings, keep in mind you will be under suspicion of being too normal/average so its critical through your actions or stories you demonstrate that you aren’t some average Joe.
A personal favorite story of mine when encountering this type of girl is when I was in high school. I use to run with a rough crew and get into trouble. Upon telling some stories about these adventures, it immediately puts my date at ease because people normally feel most comfortable around individuals that are like-minded. The more you can relate to each others worldly experiences and beliefs, the more connected she’ll feel and the faster an intimate moment may arise.
So if you are reading this and reflecting upon your life without any crazy stories, then go out there and create one. Obviously be safe but even traveling all alone in a foreign country sleeping in hostels and meeting new people will satisfy the screening of these decorated women.
Go get it done tiger!!!
I’m going to receive Xmas cards for this insightful post!
If eyes are the window to the soul, shoes are the front door to mind. It telegraphs exactly what the person is feeling at the moment.
The first thing I scan for when I pick up a date are her shoes. This will tell me exactly the type of mood she’s in, a clue of what to expect later on and even an idea of her political affiliations. Yes I’m that good 😉
Let’s review a few options:
So be aware what she is telling you via her shoe choice. All these clues (read previous posts) are building up to create a clear picture of how to proceed to play the game correctly. If she’s agreed to spend an evening with you, that means you’ve passed her pre-screening and will be allowed to board the plane (if you play your cards right).
Stay calm, stay in control, stay building rapport & stay ahead of the CONQUEST game!
Oh, almost forgot to mention a 4th and personal favorite category of mine. Its the “I’m so hot, i’ll wear these exotic shoes to let you know you better bring your A game.”
More on that later…
There are 7 fundamental emotions that are displayed via facial expressions: anger, fear, sadness, joy, disgust, surprise and contempt. Universally accepted as the basis of facial communication, these emotions can once more tell a story.
Let’s just take one we are all very familiar. The smile 🙂
This is the universal expression of happiness or joy. When a girl gives you a smile, we believe its an open invitation for CONQUEST.
This might be the case but we need to examine the micro-expression to truly understand what she is trying to communicate.
Some smiles can mean “get lost.” Those are the half baked coy expressions that as players we all dread. The kill em with kindness move.
I’ve been out hunting at many of bars and had girls give this smile proceeded by walking off. The key is to recognize early micro-expressions to gauge if you are in friendly or hostile territory.
Also, I’ve incorporated and consciously make an effort to smile more. At the supermarket, shopping mall, campus or wherever you go, try to make an effort to smile all the time. You will see the results instantly 🙂
You will be surprised at the reactions and opportunities that open up. Its like the law of attraction, if you spread joy, it will come back to you. Also, smiling reflects a solid and healthy mental state. So do your best young soldier to get and there and give/receive those favorable signals of interest!